adult nonfiction

Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books

in adult nonfiction, book clubs, book review, cultures, Iran

Author Azar Nafisi tells her story by recounting the books she shared with her students. A gifted teacher, Nafisi, grows up in a liberated Iran, only to have the reign of Ayatollah Khomeini reverse any gains women in Iran had made towards independence and personal freedom. After being "expelled" from the University where she taught, the author decides to start a book club for a select group of women who meet in her home, free from censors and the eyes of men.

"Again and again as we discussed Lolita in that class, our discussions were colored by my student's hidden personal sorrows and joys. Like tearstains on a letter, these forays into the hidden and the personal shaded all our discussions of Nabakov (Lolita). And more and more I thought of that butterfly;what linked us so closely was this perverse intimacy of victim and jailer."

"Curiously the novels we escaped into led us finally to question and prod our own realities, about which we felt so utterly speechless."

Reading Lolita in Tehran has not only given me a greater understanding of the classics (an education I seemed to have missed when studying literature in high school or undergraduate school), but a real appreciation for the freedoms we enjoy as women in the United States. This book was not an easy read (and I admit I took a few breaks to digest and escape into other books)but well worth the journey.

Food Matters: A Guide to Concious Eating

in adult nonfiction, environment, living green, nutrition

In Food Matters mark Bittman asks readers to make a few unremarkable changes in diet to achieve greater health and work towards a more environmentally friendly food supply. Eat less meat, eat less junk food and eat more plants. Bittman includes recipes and tips to make the transition to conscious eating less painful. Also consider reading Fast Food Nation and Chew on This by Eric Schlosser.

Vital Friends: The People You Can't Afford to Live Without

in adult nonfiction, book review, friends, management, productivity

The best books usually come from recommendations made by friends! This book is no exception. A close friend handed the book to me last week. Author/researcher Tom Rath explores the way in which friends can enrich your life and how fostering friendships at work can make an organization even more productive. According to new research, finding friends at work can make employees feel more connected to their jobs and the ideal situation is where the people you work with are "like family." Having friends at work may even make your home life more fulfilling and have positive affects on your health.

I'm still thinking about the principles laid out in "Vital Friends." Each of your friends may play one or more of the roles as builder, champion, collaborator, companion, connector, energizer, mind opener or navigator. According to Facebook I have 50 friends, but the people I really connect with would fill a much smaller circle. I'm fortunate to have several close friends at work and I consider my spouse of 25 years to be my BFF.